Wednesday, 16 November 2011

Tips for men after breaking up with girlfriend


Guys, what will you do when your girlfriend broke up with you?? I'm guessing that you will do lots of stupid things rite?? yeah, me too.. =_="  I've been there also..  Here are some useful tips that you guys can use. ^_^

  1. Don't get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love.
  2. Leave Her Alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a great relationship, she'll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you.
  3. Cut off all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it's killing her more. She's starting to realize how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the biggest step.
  4. Recover Emotionally. You don't have a chance of getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and controlled. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before attempting to draw her back into it. Just be calm and collected about the whole situation, and make your life happier. Going for jogging or to the gym will make you feel better too.
  5. Start talking to another girl. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you're talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with caution as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.
  6. Act like nothing is wrong. She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Make sure you're laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
  7. Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking good. She won't be able to resist.
  8. Build up confidence.
  9. If you want to get her back, then you should be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.
*When your ex gets back in touch, DO NOT start talking to her about your relationship right away! Even if she desperately wants you back, she's probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Instead, pretend as if you had never dated and treat her purely as an old friend. This will help you put her at ease and allow you to gradually nudge her towards reconciliation rather than running the risk of scaring her away.

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